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Audio course · Why adoption parenting is different

Cool, Calm & Connected Children™

Nervous system parenting for foster and adoptive families. Simple tools to calm meltdowns and stay regulated yourself.

5 modules · Short audio lessons

Get the Course for $49

Intro offer. Instant access after purchase. Lifetime access.

When calm feels out of reach

Your child goes from fine to furious in seconds. You stay patient, then you snap, then you feel guilty. Tomorrow it happens again.

That cycle isn't a sign that you're failing. A child who has lived through loss or early trauma has a nervous system that is always scanning for danger. And when their system is on high alert, yours follows.

This course teaches you how both nervous systems work, and how your calm can become your child's calm.

Inside the course

  • Module 1: Why adoption parenting is different
  • Module 2: Understanding your own nervous system
  • Module 3: Co-regulation: how your calm becomes their calm
  • Module 4: Regulating through the hardest moments
  • Module 5: Sustaining your own nervous system over the long haul

Learn in the gaps of a busy day

Every lesson is short and audio only, so you can listen in the car, on a walk or after bedtime. Each one is in my voice, the way I would explain it to you in a coaching session.

You get instant access the moment you buy, and the course is yours for life.

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Maxine Golden

Meet Maxine Golden

Maxine Golden is a Parent Coach and Clinical Director of the Center for Parent Coaching, Brainspotting & Therapy in Brandon, Florida. She has over 25 years of experience with foster, adoptive and court-involved families.

Her work draws on Brainspotting, Polyvagal Theory, TBRI and play therapy. She is also an adoptive mom, so she knows these hard days from both sides.

"Your child does not need a perfect parent. They need a regulated one. This course shows you how to get there, one calm moment at a time."

What parents are saying

"I took Cool, Calm & Connected and I am almost shocked that it worked. I never knew the techniques she gave me could make such a huge difference. Listening to her voice also helped me absorb the information better. Her British accent is so soothing."

Angel, Cool, Calm & Connected

This course is for you if...

  • You are a foster, adoptive or kinship parent
  • Your child's meltdowns leave you exhausted or feeling like you're failing
  • You want tools that work with your child's nervous system, not against it
  • You need help staying calm yourself when your child can't

Questions

How do I access the course?

Straight after payment you'll get instant access to the course in your members area. You can listen on your phone, tablet or computer.

How long do I have access?

For life. Come back to any lesson whenever you need it.

Is it video or audio?

Audio. Every lesson is in my voice, so you can listen while you get on with your day.

Is the $49 price permanent?

$49 is an intro price. The price goes up to $97 after launch.

Your calm can become your child's calm. Let's start there.

Get the Course for $49

Intro price. The price goes up to $97 after launch.